For anybody who wasn't here yesterday when we had one of our new members

First topic message reminder :

Lisa (showing as 'guest' on her posts) did join yesterday and have a chat with us. She has since chosen to delete her account, as she received a lot of abuse and threats from the admin of another forum she was on and wants to take a break from forums for a while.

Just posting this so that there's no confusion. She didn't delete her account out of spite, or anything like that.

Tbh, I think it already is. He's losing more and more members of his forum, due to his nastiness.

Again, that speaks volumes to his character,  not to his members.
I hope she comes back, shares her puppies & has fun on the site.  The sooner the better to show him he has no control over her!

She's more than welcome here, if she decides to joins again. Though I'd like it to be because she's comfortable here, and not to prove anything to him. He's just not worth the bother.

The "not allowed to like or join other forums" thing caused a lot of bother. He let the older ones and the ones who refused to bow down to him do it, but still tried to bully the new ones into doing his bidding.

He just infuriates me so much. I would love to have an intervention with him to show him how much of a dickhole he has been and is being. I feel sorry for him! He clearly leads a pathetic life and i don't wish that on anyone (if i don't work or do something for more than a week i go crazy depressed!)

He might have the numbers on members but there is not a lot of good advice. I've been trolling and shaking my head at some of the no-answer answers.

Yes, i do that from time to time.

The answers are either terrible advice or "I don't know know, but someone will be along in a minute".

Generally speaking, the first 10-15 topics are spam or talking about his allotment.

I noticed that too. He chased all the people with any actual knowledge away and his site will suffer for it.

Caryll wrote: "I don't know know, but someone will be along in a minute".

I have never understood why you would say that.

Eleanor wrote:She's more than welcome here, if she decides to joins again. Though I'd like it to be because she's comfortable here, and not to prove anything to him. He's just not worth the bother.

Yes, I would love her to join the conversations because she is comfortable chatting with us all.  
But I would post like a fiend just to p1ss him off!

tracyp wrote:

Eleanor wrote:She's more than welcome here, if she decides to joins again. Though I'd like it to be because she's comfortable here, and not to prove anything to him. He's just not worth the bother.

Yes, I would love her to join the conversations because she is comfortable chatting with us all.  
But I would post like a fiend just to p1ss him off!

Well I would!
He can't ban her here to the best of my knowledge!

(Pardon me but......@#$/ him!)
It's Lisa's absolute right to post & speak to anyone she chooses to!

Shisa wrote:

Caryll wrote: "I don't know know, but someone will be along in a minute".

I have never understood why you would say that.

tbh I'm pretty sure I have said that on that forum! The reason would have been that nobody had replied to the question after a while and I didn't want the person to think that they were being totally ignored, even if I couldn't help them myself.